Ten things men do during sex that women hate

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They say the more sex you have, the more you perfect your skills of making the woman satisfied and coming back for more. But the question is, what if the tricks you are attempting succeeds in turning her off? There has always been a huge deficit regarding how women and men approach sex. Perhaps female orgasm is the biggest of them. There are also a lot of misconceptions about how women feel about some of the things too. First of all, women don’t hate sex. Secondly, women don’t need to be in love to have sex, and finally, the size of your penis doesn’t matter. Isn’t it great if we cleared that once and for all?

As ThePornDude I have embarked on a journey to find out what men do during sex that annoys women. By the end of this piece, you should be in a position to avoid the ten nuisance and give her what she actually yearns for.

1.      Recreating sex positions you saw on porn

There is nothing that annoys women more than this, gentlemen. Do not try to recreate sex positions you saw in a porn video. You only end up doing a head start and looking like a mess. You even make it worse by asking her whether she loves your new style. Well, what if she doesn’t? Stay warned.

2.        Skipping foreplay

FOREPLAY IS PART OF SEX. Unless you are Denzel Washington or something, your woman will always need a warm-up session. This is where all the excitement starts. Do not sell yourself and your woman short. Another thing, five seconds of kissing doesn’t count as foreplay.  Like you may or may not know, women take a while longer to get excited. Don’t rush it, just be a little bit more patient bearing in mind that women love foreplay. It’s for your own good

3.      Letting her do all the work when she’s on top

Well, being on top is considered a position of power by many women but, it doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to do everything by herself. The last thing she wants is to be having sex with a dead fish. She may be in control but,   also looking for an engaging partner. The thing is, women are so used to men being on top that at times she may not know what she sis supposed to do. Don’t just look at her motionless, fucking do something. You don’t have to thrust but engage her. You may touch her breasts or grab her butt or anything. Just don’t lie there like a log. Women hate it.

4.        Gazing at her vagina

Assuming that women understand that all the intricate folding’s of her vagina could be a little bit too fascinating for you. That doesn’t mean you have to stare at it during oral; it’s simply creepy. A little admiring is not bad, but fully focusing on it is a bit of a turnoff for women. You may complement it and tell her how you love the sight of it as you enter but don’t just gawk.

5.        Being too controlling

Most women will admit that sometimes it is erotic to be told what to do between the sheets, but, there is a thin line between giving directions and being too controlling. It is good to have a man who is confident and willing to take the reins, but that’s different from running over somebody. How do you know you have crossed the line? Commanding her into a position, you have not tried before and assuming that she will simply oblige. She will hate you for that, trust me.

6.        Attacking her clitoris

Men think it’s all about the clitoris, so they put their whole focus on it. What they don’t realize is that that it’s   the most sensitive part of a woman’s body. The last thing women want is for their clit to be jackhammered. Instead of going straight into rubbing it, start with gentle stroking. If she wants you to go harder, she will tell you. The clit is not some instrument it is a sensory organ that can grow sore too.

7.        Releasing your entire weight on her

It is tiring to stay on top all the time. Women understand that, but that doesn’t give you, men, the license to rest your whole body weight on her. You will end up crushing her ribs. You see those biceps you were bragging about earlier? Use them to prop yourself up if you don’t want to switch positions. It is hard for a woman to feel any pleasure with your whole weight resting on her.

8.        Trying to last as long as possible

You may not believe it, but marathon sex is not going to boost her satisfaction. Men have this thing about stamina, and they mistakenly think that the longer they last, the better. Mistake number one. Women compare that to being massaged in the same place for 45 minutes, not fun right? You can tell if she’s stopped connecting when she stops making the noises or just stops trying. That’s a cue for you to wrap things up.

9.        Manual stimulation as the first thing

Starting with clitoral stimulation as an appetizer for the main dish to the woman, it feels a bit invasive. Men think that a woman needs to be touched for her to be turned on. What they fail to realize is that nothing is arousing about touching a dry vagina. Want to know the most reliable way of getting her wet? Touch her everywhere else apart from the genitals. That will help her lube up. Only then will she be ready for you to head down south.

10.        Playing awful music

This may be the last thing on my list but trust me, it is equally important.  Good music sets the mood. Forcing her to listen to heavy electro rave sounds is an absolute mood killer. It is all about getting it on, not embarking on a galactic space trip to Mars. Don’t even think of playing that “Boyz II Men throwback shit that you think is awesome but is lame. Oh, and playing Drake will just give you away as one soft ass man. Women hate soft guys!

Conclusion

You have been warned, gentlemen. Do not try any of the above things if you want her to come back. How many of the above felonies are you guilty of committing? Well, only you can tell. But make sure you don’t become a serial offender because few women will be willing to part their legs for you.