Why do women hate porn

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Few women have the audacity to admit that they indeed love porn. Well, I admit that the majority of porn watchers are indeed men, but there is a significant number of women who watch porn too. As for those who don’t like it at all, what is their reason? Research shows that about 95% of sex addicts are men. This means that only 5% of women are up for some fun. Could porn be a contributing factor? Today ThePornDude is interested in finding out why women hate porn.

10 Reasons Why Women Hate Porn

1.   Porn is made for men

Well, for the most part anyway. According to women, very little about porn is about pleasing the woman. Almost everything is done to please men. The woman in the porn movie is there just for the man’s pleasure. They are shown around like trophies or something the man has won and therefore has the right to use the way he pleases. Apparently, even lesbian scenes are there to please men and not the women. I guess then it’s a bit hard to love something that is not meant for you. I understand that sounds a bit feminist, but the women said so, not me.

2.   Porn sets ridiculous standards

Another very understandable reason. You see, women are naturally jealous creatures. They hate what they cannot realistically achieve. It appears that women know the amount of preparedness and money that goes into achieving the otherworldly bodies female pornstars have. They understand that a lot of waxing and plastic surgery goes into that. Those are ridiculous standards to expect the ordinary woman to uphold.   What hurts women more is the fact that men have an unrealistic expectation for women to look like these female pornstars. These are ridiculous standards, and naturally, women will hate anything that seems to put impossible expectations in the minds of men.

3.   Female competition

This is yet another reason that makes women (the majority of them anyway) hate porn. Women have a problem with female competition. They will feel insecure about other attractive women. The first thing that crosses a woman’s mind when she sees an attractive woman is how they will compete. Upon realization that competing with female pornstars is an effort in futility, they end up hating the whole thing.

4.   Porn can turn men into selfish people

Another problem women have with porn is how easily it can turn a compassionate and selfless person into one selfish pig whose only worry is about satisfying himself. It might seem strange to you, but people who are addicted to porn would rather spend their weekends glued to the screen of their PCs with hands in their pants than have real sex. In their imagination, they can have sex with anyone and in any angle. If I was a woman, I would hate that level of selfishness as well.

5.   Makes women insecure

Obviously, not all of them but a good number of women feel like they are being cheated on by their men when they watch porn. Why would the man be jerking off to some random bitch when the real thing is just a call away? To them, the fact that a man is being turned on by watching another woman getting fucked is cheating. Leave alone the fact that porn is a mere visual stimulation. It sounds absurd, but it has never been easy to understand women.

6.   They find it degrading to women

A lot of women find porn degrading and humiliating to women. A lot of porn depicts violence against women; there is gagging on his penis, forcing her to swallow, grabbing her by the neck and all that stuff. What is missing in most porn videos is an affection of any kind. Women hate that fact about porn. The vast majority of porn has nothing to do with loving women but rather, how they can be used to turn men on.

7.   Porn gives men a sense of entitlement

Men are visual creatures, and they get excited by what they see. Porn gives men some sense of entitlement. They feel that they also need to be treated the way their female colleagues treat male pornstars. Subsequently, some end up forcing their partners to try out some of the things in porn. Anal sex, for example, is something many women wouldn’t even be willing to think about because of the pain involved, forget about enjoying it. There is also the part about cumming on her face, which is kind of different from any other part of the body, as you all you know.

8.   Porn is addictive

We all knew this, but did you know that women hate porn for this particular reason? They do. It is even worse when men have to lie about their porn watching habits. Consider that 70% of male porn watchers have lied about their porn-watching habits at least once. This brings a betrayal aspect to it. To women, this is an admission that the man is secretly enjoying a sexual fix somewhere else. Many women do not even want their partners watching porn, to begin with.

9.   Makes women feel not good enough

The fact that their man is watching porn is already an indication that he is getting turned on by another naked female and even drawing pleasure (read jerking) from watching her get fucked. This makes the woman feel like she’s not good enough to please her man. The question they ask themselves is, ‘why is he resorting to porn when he has me?’ That’s as good a reason to hate porn as they come!

10.   Porn creates bad lovers

In more ways than one, porn has contributed to the existence of bad lovers, at least according to women. Many men who watch porn have no idea how to please a woman in bed. They either learned it wrong after watching porn or did it right before porn ruined it.  Men believe that every woman has to scream like a banshee and as noisily as they see in porn, disregarding the fact that the man is not as good a performer as the pornstars. This is an absolute turn off for many women, and they hate porn for it.

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